BENZO STORY: Rick from Charleston, South Carolina
Updated: Mar 23
A dark and difficult benzo story of dependence on Ativan. After facing severe withdrawal symptoms including the loss of job and relationships, Rick found a way out and is beginning to rebuild his life.
Key Topics: Anxiety, Benzos, Dependence, Withdrawal, Ativan, lorazepam, career loss, relationship loss, hallucinations, gabapentin, Prozac, fluoxotine, antidepressant, doctors, success
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Dark night of the soul.
In 2007, I was promoted to VP of business development for a southeast engineering firm. I was having trouble flying on planes, and my family doctor prescribed Ativan as needed, that I could take one hour before I flew. It worked so well, I started taking it at night when I traveled for sleep.
Never was told not to take for a long period of time.
Never was I told not to take for a long period of time. That same year the economy was slowing, and as an officer I had to take a pay cut. I became depressed and the doctor prescribed an SSRI. Prozac. I thought I would go crazy.
He would try me on many medications. Kept telling me it takes weeks for results. I kept telling him I felt weird. Felt like my brain stopped working. I kept telling him the Ativan was not working.
He switched my prescription to 1mg 3 times a day. I started seeing a counselor for depression. I started going for days without sleep. In 2011, my father died, my youngest son graduated college, and my oldest son married. I started having panic attacks on planes, and started isolating myself from work. I started having panic just going into the office.
I tried to taper off Ativan and ended up in hospital.
I tried to taper off Ativan and ended up in hospital. I started seeing a psychiatrist. He switched me from Ativan to lorazepam [lorazepam is the generic form of Ativan] because it had a longer half-life. Then the crazies started.
I started seeing things like spirits in people. As if I was in another world. I paced the house for days, trying to keep things from happening to my son. I thought someone was out to harm my family.
I started seeing things like spirits in people.
Ended up, they put me on Effexor, and kept me on lorazepam. I took a short-term leave of work. I thought I was losing my mind.
In 2013, I returned to work for two months, and in June they terminated my employment. I had been with the company 22 years. My wife left me after 25 years. I was having rage fits and uncontrollable fits of anger. I put myself in a 6-week treatment facility where they took me off lorazepam in 10 days using gabapentin.
…in June they terminated my employment…my wife left me after 25 years.
In 2016, I applied for disability. I could not work. I was still seeing a group for depression. I was having pain in my legs and burning in my feet. I was told I had nerve damage and prescribed Lyrica. It did nothing to help the burning.
In 2017, I moved to Charleston to be near my sons. Since 2013, our relationship had gone downhill. I would have psychotics episodes where I though evil had taken over my mind. I saw things in people like mean spirits. I found a doctor who had worked with me to get off benzos.
I have stopped completely with a slow taper from 2 mg to zero. I have good days and bad days where my nerves hurt in my shoulders. The best thing that happened was I got my mind busy. It was a slow process.
My son told me to Uber. I wasn’t sure what Uber was. I started a couple days a week. I found meeting people and getting out of the house helped me feel better. After 9 months, I started a small business after meeting people from UBERing.
I am still not where I want to be physically, but I am 100 percent better.
I am still not where I want to be physically, but I am 100 percent better. I am building my relationship with my sons and my wife.
My biggest frustration, is I was never made aware that you could become dependent to benzos and the withdrawal could cause mental and physical torment.
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