Updated: Feb 28
Keith’s story is that of an ongoing battle with insomnia, anger, and depersonalization/derealization, after taking Klonopin and Ambien.
Key Topics: Anxiety, Benzos, Dependence, Withdrawal, Klonopin (clonazepam), Ambien (zolpidem), alcohol, anger, irritability, insomnia, cold turkey, depersonalization, derealization, dp/dr, abuse, addiction
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I started taking Klonopin for sleep issues which were created by anxiety when I started my first teaching job in 2011. It was during my second year of teaching that I started the benzo, after abusing Ambien for about a year or so.
The Klonopin worked immediately and helped me sleep, and also helped me at work. I took Klonopin off and on for about five years, from 2011 to about the end of 2015. I quit cold turkey every summer, and often would not take doses over the weekends during the school year. I would often binge drink on the weekends though, but I only took the Klonopin on school nights.
I quit cold turkey every summer…
After reading about the possibility of dementia, I quit for what I thought would be the final time at the end of 2015. I didn’t take any medications for two full years, but I continued to drink during that time period. During the 2016-2017 school year I even told myself I would never need to take prescription pills again.
During the 2016-2017 year our daughter was born. I thought I did pretty well with it, and even stayed home with her for a month of paternity leave on my own. Then the 2017-2018 school year started, and I started feeling depressed about my job, and then the same old anxiety I had felt early in my career returned.
I was having a hard time public speaking again. I started getting paranoid thoughts about students. So, I figured I’d better go back on the Klonopin. I went back on in early January 2018 until March 21st, 2018. During that time period I started getting more depressed, my sleep got increasingly worse, and I started to notice weird things going on with my heart. It wasn’t until the one weekend where I didn’t take a dose, that I knew I was in trouble.
I was at home by myself and it started feeling as though I was going insane.
I was at home by myself and it started feeling as though I was going insane. I could not comfortably sit on the couch with my lunch and watch a television show. I ended up pacing around my neighborhood in the snow until I felt a little better.
I ended up quitting the medication cold turkey, and it took about three days, and the exact same thing happened where it felt like I was going insane, and I had to pace around the room without losing it. I did this in front of my wife and daughter.
About a week after quitting, I joined Benzo Buddies and realized what was happening to me. I was in withdrawal. I didn’t take quitting cold turkey seriously even then, because I had done it so many times in the past without any issues. I figured I would be better in a few months. I was wrong.
The first month off I didn’t sleep at all, maybe a half hour a night. Then my sleep came back about a month and a half later and I started feeling a little better. Not knowing I shouldn’t drink, I had one drink on two separate occasions, and the hell really began around June 2018 when my school year ended.
I went into a horrible state of depersonalization and derealization.
I went into a horrible state of depersonalization and derealization. The depression I felt became a constant fear of ending my life, and I would have panic attacks in the middle of the night worried that I would. I almost put myself in a psych ward multiple times. My sleep was up and down but by five months off, I was back to only sleeping like two hours a night. I basically needed to be out walking constantly.
Despite feeling these things, I went back to teaching at about six months off and taught the entire year in a completely detached state. I mostly felt like I had to work because I was afraid to be home alone. At about nine months off, I started having violent intrusive thoughts that went along with my depression.
By about 12 months off, the depression turned into anger. I had the anger for absolutely no reason too, just a general sense of being angry all the time and sometimes at specific people. I am still dealing with the anger and anxiety about the anger, at nearly 21 months off benzos and 18 months off alcohol.
I have no idea if it’s ever going to get better or not fully, but it makes being at home tremendously hard. It’s weird to think that I actually do better at work than at home with my family. I’m constantly second-guessing it’s all benzo withdrawal for that reason.
Other symptoms I’m still dealing with are numb spots all over my body, mostly in my face, a feeling of pressure around my eyes, and burning nerves, mostly in my left calf. My vision has been very bad for a long time, but it seems to be returning and some of the DR/DP is getting slightly better. I still struggle with restful sleep, but it has certainly improved from where I was a year ago. I was sleeping about two hours a night at 8 months off, and at 20 months off I’m getting about 5 to 6 hours.
One of the hardest things I’m dealing with is intolerance to real world stress.
I still don’t have my ability to sleep in back and I’m guessing it’s gone for good. One of the hardest things I’m dealing with is intolerance to real world stress. I often feel like crying at work when I have too many tasks to do, or too many people to interact with. Sometimes I just want to cry for no reason.
Then, when I get home, my body often goes into a state of freeze when I’m around my family because of the anger and intrusive thoughts. I’m struggling with this the most.
I think after 21 months off the medications and 18 months off alcohol, you really start to question whether or not something else is wrong with you, but I look perfectly healthy, and I have had tests run during this that all came back fine. I just don’t know what to do to help myself anymore and I often lose hope as a result.
I hope this starts getting better in the next six months.
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